There are some reputable resources on the Internet to help you with additional questions regarding a contested divorce. I will give you some below. Please remember that this is not designed to replace a competent lawyer, be some sort of DIY roadmap, or even be specific to your situation. These are just some contested divorce resources that you may find helpful.
This is a video put out by the Virginia State Bar on divorce in Virginia.
Here is a link to the Virginia State Bar on financial issues in divorce in Virginia.
There is also some information put out by the Virginia State Bar on children and divorce.
This is the Virginia Code section on the grounds of divorce in Virginia.